Midlife is often a season of reflection and transition, especially for leaders. Despite numerous professional achievements, many find themselves grappling with feelings of dissatisfaction or even a crisis of purpose. If this resonates with you, know that you’re not alone. The good news is that this season can also be a time of profound personal and professional growth. Here's how you can navigate this midlife journey and find true fulfillment in both work and life.
Before diving into strategies, it’s important to understand what a midlife crisis or ennui entails. This phase is characterized by:
Reflection: A deep, often uncomfortable questioning of past choices, current status, and future direction.
Dissatisfaction: A pervasive feeling that something important is missing despite outward success.
Restlessness: A desire for change and a yearning for deeper meaning in life and work.
While these feelings can be unsettling, they also offer an opportunity for significant transformation.
Take the time to reflect on your journey so far. Assess what you have achieved and evaluate what genuinely brings you joy and fulfillment. Journaling, meditation, or working with a coach can help you gain clarity.
Questions to ask:
What accomplishments am I most proud of?
What activities and roles energize me versus drain me?
How aligned is my current work with my passions and values?
Use your reflections to set a new vision for your future. This vision should encompass not only your career ambitions but also your personal aspirations and spiritual goals.
Visioning Exercise: Close your eyes and imagine your ideal life five to ten years from now. Write down this vision in as much detail as possible, focusing on how you feel and what you are doing.
Incorporate spiritual practices to connect more deeply with your internal self. These practices can provide inner peace and clarity, guiding you as you realign your life with your core values.
Examples:
Daily meditation or prayer
Mindfulness exercises
Joining a spiritual or religious community
Midlife is the perfect time to invest in yourself through lifelong learning. Pursue new skills, hobbies, or areas of knowledge that excite you.
Actions:
Enroll in courses or workshops
Read books on subjects that interest you
Join professional or personal development groups
Surround yourself with a supportive community of like-minded individuals. Sharing your journey with others can provide encouragement, fresh perspectives, and accountability.
Suggestions:
Connect with mentors and peers
Engage in mastermind groups focused on leadership and personal growth
Participate in networking events or online communities
Your well-being is crucial during this transformative period. Ensure you maintain a balance between work and personal life.
Self-Care Practices:
Regular exercise
Nutritious eating
Adequate sleep
Time for hobbies and relaxation
Navigating the midlife season as a leader can be challenging but incredibly rewarding. By reflecting on your journey, setting a new vision, incorporating spiritual practices, embracing lifelong learning, building a support network, and prioritizing well-being, you can find fulfillment that transcends professional success.
Ready to transform your midlife leadership journey into one of purpose and fulfillment? Join my mastermind group, where we offer personalized guidance, practical strategies, and a supportive community to help you navigate this pivotal phase successfully. Email me for more information: info@drfaithngunjiri.com
Dr. Faith Wambura Ngunjiri
Dr Faith Wambura Ngunjiri – Dr Faith as my students fondly call me – maybe because Ngunjiri is a mouthful for North Americans. I am a woman of deep faith. I live and work in both US and Kenya, and a lot of places in between, a true global citizen.
Join Mailing List
I agree to terms & conditions provided by the company. By providing my phone number, I agree to receive text messages from the business.
Copyright 2023 Faith Ngunjiri, Ed.D