The Power of Reinvention with Debra Ouma
Introduction
In this episode of Two Coaches in a Room, Dr. Faith and Zeba engage in an insightful conversation with Debra Ouma about reinvention. She shares her journey of personal and professional transformation, highlighting the pivotal moments that shaped her path.
Debra’s Background and Journey
Debra is a communications professional with a background in PR and technology. She describes herself as a creative strategist with multiple talents.
Her professional experience spans agencies, government, NGOs, and the tech industry, where she became a champion for digital adoption, particularly in low-income communities.
Passionate about empowering women, she founded Positive Circles, a network dedicated to helping women make better life choices.
Moments of Reinvention
Early Struggles and Resilience
Debra’s reinvention journey began when she lost her father, becoming an orphan while still responsible for her younger siblings. She worked multiple jobs to pay for her education, navigating life as a determined hustler (Kijanayamikono) while attending evening classes.
Transition into Communications and Entrepreneurship
Despite lacking formal qualifications initially, Debra worked her way into prestigious institutions like the World Bank and the African Development Bank, albeit in temporary roles.
She later pursued a degree in communications, but as an older graduate, she found it difficult to start at the bottom. Instead of waiting for opportunities, she created her own by founding Crimson Media PR, a boutique agency.
Her agency grew, attracting international clients, including hospitals, multinational corporations, and even the BBC.
Career Setback and a Forced Pivot
In 2018, Kenya’s political uncertainty led to economic instability, affecting business owners like Debra. Many contracts were canceled, and payments were delayed. At the same time, she became pregnant with her second child, prompting her to pause and redirect her focus.
Entry into Tech and a Humbling Experience
In 2019, she was headhunted for an operations role in a tech company. While she excelled in digital adoption strategies, she struggled with the technical and numerical aspects of operations. This experience taught her humility, the importance of listening, and the need to focus on her strengths.
Midlife Crisis and Intentional Reinvention
Approaching 40, Debra experienced deep dissatisfaction with her life, work, and relationships. The COVID-19 pandemic intensified her struggles, leading her to confront unaddressed mental health issues.
She sought therapy, coaching, and financial guidance, embarking on a structured journey of self-discovery. What started as a six-month sabbatical for self-care extended to two years. During this time, she reconnected with herself and those around her while also embracing her creative passions.
Lessons Learned from Reinvention
Reinvention Often Comes from Discomfort
Frustration, dissatisfaction, or a lack of joy are indicators that change is needed. These feelings should be explored rather than ignored.
Confidence and Action Drive Change
Throughout her journey, Debra maintained self-belief. She did not wait for opportunities; she created them. Confidence, even when naive at times, helped propel her forward.
Failure is a Learning Opportunity
The move into tech humbled her, but it also reinforced the value of being open to learning, listening, and adapting.
Intentionality is Key
Major life shifts require planning. Debra sought coaching, therapy, and financial advice to ensure her next steps were strategic and sustainable.
Reinvention Requires Reconnection
Relationships play a critical role. Rebuilding bonds with family, friends, and mentors can provide emotional and strategic support.
Know the Difference Between Passion and Purpose
Passion is what brings personal joy, while purpose is what serves others. When they align, life becomes more fulfilling.
Final Reflections
Debra described reinvention as scary, life-changing, and deliberate. Dr. Faith added a fourth word: reconnection—to self, others, and one’s true desires. The conversation ended with a reminder that reinvention is not limited to one moment in life; you can reinvent yourself as often as you want.
Closing Thoughts
Debra’s story is a powerful reminder that reinvention is not just about career shifts but also about reclaiming joy, purpose, and well-being. Her journey serves as an inspiration for anyone feeling stuck or uncertain about their next steps.
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